Tuesday, November 30, 2010

写给接近 24 岁的女人

很喜欢这篇文章,所以和大家分享一下~


感觉说得很有道理,希望每个女生都能幸福的生活着~~

1.要坚信一个真理:这个世界上只有爸妈永远对你好。     
你24岁了,你记不记得自己青春反叛的时候怎么气过他们。     
你24岁了,父母都快年过半百了,你要对他们好的时间已经不多了。不要等失去的时候才哭着说当时年少不懂事,没有好好孝敬父母。

2.是的,你已经达到法定婚龄了,可是你并不用着急着嫁人。
或许你正在热恋,你们山盟海誓说要一辈子。
可是你才24岁,你不知道一辈子到底有多长。日子是过出来的,不是想出来的。
结婚,不是两个人的事情,是两个家庭的事情。老一辈讲的门当户对,并不是毫无道理的封建思想。
结婚,你应该抱着一辈子只有一次的信念,所以结婚,慢慢来。

3.轰轰烈烈的爱情,留给一字头的年龄。     
你24岁了。别再做那些会被别人当做笑话的傻事。     
什么夜不归宿,当街吵架,以死相逼,一哭二闹三上吊。   
那些疯狂的事情,那些年少轻狂,经历过就够了。     
24岁了,学会淡定从容。     
女孩子,从来就应该骄傲地活着,而不是卑微地恋爱。

4.不要因为寂寞而恋爱,不要因为跟风而恋爱。   
24岁了,学会对自己的人生负责。

5.自己喜欢的东西,不要奢望别人买。 
24岁,不管你以前是否玩过暧昧,你已经过了暧昧的年龄。 
女人要独立,经济独立是基础。

6.如果一个男人对你说他配不上你,相信他。 
一个自己说配不上你的男人,一辈子也不会配得上你! 
珍惜与能力无关,与钱无关!

7.明确自己的目标,为此奋斗。 
24岁,你要出国?找工作?还是继续学习? 
24岁,你离踏入社会已不远,你是否已做好准备?

8.答应自己的事情就要做到,该对自己狠的时候就要狠,切忌优柔寡断、藕断丝连。 
对自己心软,成不了大事。 
24岁,要学会面对现实,不能再整日沉浸于白日梦中。



9.  女孩子,要学会对自己好一点,别把所有的都投资在所谓的“潜力股”身上。 
无论什么时候,看清楚你自己手中留着什么底牌。

10.做人学会圆滑。   
24岁,别人不会再把你当小孩子,你的错误已不会再有人包容。   
对不喜欢的人和事面带笑容,是我们必须学会的恶心。

11.感谢所有伤害过你的人。   
然后在24岁生日的那天,对他们挥挥手,说声,我不再恨你们了。   
你长大了,你要正视伤害。

12.别玩什么非主流。你不是90后。     
还不如学着化化妆,不是烟熏妆,是大方得体的淡妆。   
一个大企业的面试官曾对我说过,一个化淡妆的女生,企业会优先考虑。   
为什么?因为你连自己的容貌都不着急,你会着急什么?   
世界上没有丑女人,只有懒女人。



13.减肥,说说就好。   
到你真的减到跟竹竿似的时候,你会发现低血压低血糖头晕目眩一系列疾病同时伴随你。   
说不好还有胃癌。   
24岁,你要知道,你以后的路还有很长,健康的身体是你走下去的保证。

14.对挑拨离间的人,不要揭发他。   
等他演完一出出好戏,拼命演,拼命圆。   
然后告诉他,其实你什么都知道。   
接着,笑笑,离开。

15.谁对你好,你就对谁好。   
人际交往永远是礼尚往来的、双向法则,没有人有义务对你好。   
24岁,擦亮眼睛,谁对你好,记得对他好。



16.转身,要比眼泪快。   
这是必须。   
24岁了,你必须学会承担难过,你必须知道难过它会过去。   
要经常对自己说,我也可以很勇敢。不要,千万不要,轻易在别人面前掉眼泪。   
别人看多了你的眼泪,就会觉得你的眼泪如此廉价。



17.你以前或许干过许多荒唐的事。       可是请你不要觉得那有多见不得人。请你不要觉得那是负担。       24岁,这是你生命中一个新的开始。


18.随时给自己准备一个微笑
告诉自己
我可以!

Monday, November 29, 2010

dot.dot.dot.one month sem break.

aiksss...starts feel boring to stay at home already~
Just try to find out something to fill up my time
Finally,I got a job works for weekend...continuous works for coming 5 weekends~
erm...better get nothing la...

Now everyone starts to seek about their internship
It's the time to apply now
I'm still in preparation and searching on that
Still got a lot of question marks on that"???..."

Suddenly got a sucks feel has appeared on my mind!!!
Really suckssss!!!=(
Seriously,I really hate this sucks feel!

Now wanna starts to finish watch all those dramas that I've stopped in the half~
Just keep watching and watching...

Still havent meet any frens yet
coz some of them still having their final and some go for trip already
So just wait them back and try to have a meet lo~

haha...Now very free to blog already
Everyday eat,sleep,movie+ing...
Really feel bored wv facebook~

I hope can spend well for this one month sem break~

♥eat well.sleep well.everything well@HoMe♥

yea...just starts my holiday for few days already...
What I've done for this few days???

keep looking for some part-time job to fill in my time
but still get nothing yet!haizzz...goodluck for myself lo~

then need to settle my internship stuffs in this holiday
This is a most "mafan" things also...
At first just wanna stay back at Ipoh for that
coz can save money and stay at home also
But my mum keep calling me try to find some others than Ipoh
That means is Penang lo,coz my uncle stay at there oso
So I will try to apply for two locations then only decide later on...

After that,need to ask detail for my SSPN account also...
coz got some problem on that~

erm...some more next plan is "keep fit" lo
haizzz...coz ate a lot in Kuantan already
and found myself oso looks more "round" than last time..haha
Especially my face...huh...@.@
Must starts to do some exercises already

Then I've decided to cut my hair and maybe will dye it too
Actually feel like want to cut it short
but still don't have a courage to make my hair become short!haizzz...
Maybe see later how lo~

Still planning want to go some where during this holiday
Feel like want to go Kuala Selangor...
hope can succeed my plan lo~
Now just wait to get some job 1st then only decided the exact date to go there!

Life is keep going on!!!
So don't think too much!Just try to look forward>>>
Now really enjoy my life to stay at home...
Somehow sometime is boring
But I really enjoy it~~~
Can eat well,sleep well,and everything well=)♥
haha...want to start "bow" drama at home lo~

Sunday, November 28, 2010

kuantan~



刚从kuantan回来~
这是我第二次到这个地方
可是有些一起同游的人已经不同了,可说是人事已飞~
时间真的过得很快,已经过了一年半了
本来这个trip是要告吹了
因为有两个人突然“放飞机”说不要去了
可是答应了别人的事在最后一分钟食言是件让人愤怒的事~
我真的很讨厌这种人
算了,已经过去了~
但我还是个守信用的人,幸好还有你们!
我知道谁是能靠的过的!
来到大学,什么事都能发生~
所以真的要自己'zap shang'~


这只是三天两夜短短的行程~
只是为了在考完试后要轻松一下~
哈哈,说起来真是个蛮长的路程
坐在车上都做到屁股和腰酸背痛了!


有些遗憾因为下雨的关系而不能到林明山去~
不过真的蛮开心啦,还吃了好多好多东西
哈哈,他们说我真的厉害~
“男生吃什么就跟着吃什么”
嘻嘻,我说过了,出来玩就是要尽兴的,我会奉陪到底
可是,真的惨了,我的脸又圆了一圈~哈哈~
要开始减肥了!这个计划从来没有成功过!


昨天也是倒霉的一天,上了个烂巴士~
从Kuantan到怡保。。。整整花了九小时的时间~真的拿了我的命了!
腰酸背痛,累倒半死!!!

这次终于和pei yin的Roommate有个小聚了
朋友说我们真搞笑,哈哈,怡保,沙巴,沙捞越的人尽然在kuantan喝茶哦!
真的很不错,不枉此行!嘻嘻~


这几天真的要谢谢裕豪收留我们和当我们的导游了!




1...2...3...跳!!!哈哈~

我学着某某人的“post si"!!!wakaka!

I love TC...我真的很喜欢在海边的感觉
超喜欢吹着海风,看着和听着海浪声的感觉~
可是我真的很怕水~真的要克服这种感觉哦!



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Wednesday, November 24, 2010

holiday=)


yeah...Finally finished my final exam already...
feel excited now...can start my holiday mode luuu..wahaha^^
waiting for this long time ago...
feel happy coz can stay at home~My lovely home~
can far away from that "boring+stressful" place for one month
I must enjoy and spend nicely in this holiday~
Duration for one month...very short only~
I will experience this kind of thing in every semester
From starting sem,study,test,assignment,study week,then final exam...
keep repeating in every semester,just like a routine
Actually for this final exam,I've taken it easy than last time~
Maybe I had experienced it for few times
and now already "look through" on it...
At least just try my best then is enough already
coz we can't predicts for the question which come out in exam
So...at least finished it,passes it,then I've fulfilled my job as a student!
hahaha...don't cares other things already..I just want to enjoy my holiday till maximum
By the way,I should get some part-time job to earn some travel money!


yeah...yesterday after the last paper then straight went back home with my friends
Actually just passed by at home to stay one night then will depart to Kuantan in the other day
Some more my friend need to rest a while and eat some Ipoh foods~hehe
This is just a short trip for me to kuantan,but anyway...
I'm feel excited now...coz at least can relax myself after a few weeks "war"!!!
ya...Kuantan~here I come lo...
I kinda miss satay and some other foods there!hohoho~
and feel happy to have u guys as my friends~
coz always travel and go some where with me!!!
(always done some crazy things!!!)


wish everyone have a nice and wonderful holiday!!!


Sometime thought myself is a "small gas" and narrowness(means stingy)people
Especially face with someone that I really cares!
If they suddenly changes to care other people...huh...
I sure will feel unhappy on that~~~
maybe I am too sensitive and thinking too much already
coz he/she is never own for somebody...
and no one can forever treat us good all the time
I must alert and remember everyone will change with time
When reaches a certain time,they will change their target(a person)
I have met this is kind of person the most in my campus~
No forever and permanent things in this world!
I must accept this truth in this reality world!
So next time when a same condition happens on me
I hope I really can take it easy and don't care it so much!^^
If that thing is you,then finally is by urside also~No one can take it away! 
If not,I will just say Goodbye to that!


Saturday, November 20, 2010

其实一辈子真的不长


刚刚爸爸接到一个电话
说公公的弟弟进了医院,好像不行了~
再过不久,有接到了另一个电话,说他已经离开这世界了
希望你一路好走,安心上路~


本来我是在房间复习着接下来的科目
整个人的心情突然沉下来了
越来越觉得人生真的无常
其实一辈子真的不长
所以现在长大了,经历的也越多
开始学会任何事情都不要那么执著
我也劝妈妈,事情发生了就是发生了,只要下次不要重蹈覆辙就好~


现在发现人长大后
身边的人一个接一个的都会离开
这些事情在身边不断的重演着
公公在一个多月前去世了,现在。。。又到另一个了
我知道身老病死是人生必经之路
所以现在要珍惜身边的人
尤其是家人!


以前小学时都很好奇
时常听到谁谁谁的亲戚去世了
又没来上课,我想,那到底是怎么一回事
好像一无所知
可是现在长大后,亲身经历过
那种痛的感觉是别人无法理解的~


所以,现在我会更爱我的家人
~爸爸,妈妈,弟弟和妹妹~
不知道要修多少世的福能成为才能成为家人~
才能遇见身边的人,成为朋友~
珍惜身边的人
做自己想做的事情~
想玩就玩,想去哪里就去哪里~
这就是人生~

Friday, November 19, 2010

last paper~

Keep rushing for my last subject "Advanced Manufacturing Process" in these few days...
Omg...It's consists a lot of processes need to study...Really many oh!
My hand and brain feel very tired now!
Feel a bit regret that wasted my time on Monday and Tuesday...
Anyway,I can't grabs the time back anymore~
haizzz...=.=

erm...now try to think back about my emotion on that day...
I admits that too impulsion on that thing already~huh!
when we are feel angry then better don't make any decision and talks to some one
It can avoid some unhappy things happening...

And I've failed again angry wv some one more than one day
I think less than half day...
Really feel tired when angry with somebody!
So...just try to forgot about it!!!
Since I can't changes anything on it~

goodluck for my last paper!
Just hopes can finish memorize all those things in these 3 days!

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

hate those people who break promise easily!

Why such simple thing and promise suddenly became so complicated already!
really sucks and damn shit*!!!
Actually I really felt angry!feel bad!!!
I really hate people who break promise~especially in last minute~
For me,a promise for some one is very important
If not sure,not confirm,please don't make a promise to some one!
A same person broke promise wv me for twice already...
Act not mine one person...related wv others oso...
I knew the answer since he told me like this...
It's made me speechless...spoils my mood and our plan!!!argh=.=
No next time le!!!No more already!I feel myself like a fool~

Please don't break promise wv me..coz I never forced you in any decision!
I hate this kind of people the most!
"hahaha...then push all the things toward on me and let me clean up the mess"
means 收拾烂摊子!
Must think properly before promise wv others~

Monday, November 15, 2010

●△◆□Conclusion●△◆□


yea..Today just finished my forth exam paper...still have one more paper to go only~
So this sem totally over already!!!
Just trying to look back what I have done during this half year in 2010~
erm..traveled to few places,some gathering and birthday celebration,two industrial visited!
Feel like time flies...Left one and half month then gonna moves into a new year~2011~
As my fren said,when our age keep increasing then will bring us to the next stage in our life!
That's true!!!Every people will move on into different stages~
Like recently,got two good news about my two secondary friend will get married on next year!
yea...That's another stage in our life!
haha...That's still far a way and can consider is a long journey for me~
Coz still busy with studying...and don't have a right chance for me too~

 
 Beginning of this sem:Bukit Mertajam "Duck egg char kuey tiao" with my coursemates~


1st industrial visited to STAR CNC in Butterworth~

火锅之家 ...just a simple celebration for Hui Yee's birthday...

 2nd industrial visited to Proton in PJ...
Actually not a visited but just a presentation at there~

 My Hatyai's Trip~Nice=)


Worked as Oreo roadshow promoter~1st time works with so many people~


 A gathering wv best sisters b4 went back to campus in previous sem break~

 Sister's birthday~

 As a volunteer in 30 hours famine...meet wv 2 new frens~yin qian and pei wen~
yeah~Both of them from KL and JB~
A nice event...I have decided next year will join it too~

Uss1 yum cha~



Singapore's casino one day trip during Raya Break~
haha...actually just lepak around Sentosa only...

Joshua's Birthday~

Mid-autumn festival~
3 days 2 nite Malacca trip wv Pei Yin and Yong Ling :D

Hone shern's birthday~

Satay Celup Night in Taman Pekaka~
Thanks for Mr.Fan brought back the "Satay source" from his hometown

Joo Hao's birthday~

Yum cha in a bar call 'Airport'~
Not "cha" but is beer!=)

Father's birthday~


-----------------ya...that's all of my half part in 2010---------------------

On behalf of spent a lot of money,
but I have learned and experiences a lot of new things~
All these things let me grows up and changes my point of view on many things~
Can say that consists of Pros and Cons too...
Sometime I have tried to accept the truth instead by cheating myself
That's just one reason...
Don't want to waste my time anymore in something which not good at the end
I became more realistic than last time~good sign for me!
Recent happened so many things and makes me understood that 
"we must treasure and love our family!"
This is the most basic thing in our life~Because life is short!!!

...And...
hard to get best fren and real fren in university and working place!
"we must treasure all the real frens we having now"
And my frens always reminding me:
~Friends are based on qualities but not quantities~